Anthony Ryan Rehm

September 5, 1995 - December 15, 2021

Anthony Ryan Rehm, 26, of Cape Coral, FL, passed away unexpectedly on December 15, 2021 from injuries sustained in a motor vehicle accident. 

Anthony was born on September 5, 1995 in Vineland, NJ where he was raised and graduated from Vineland High School in 2012.

He was very skilled and excelled in everything he did.  As a young man, he learned the trade of carpentry from his father, which he later pursued as a career.  He also worked in the plumbing trade.

He had a deep appreciation of music and was an extremely gifted guitarist.  He loved jamming out alone in his room, in the Studio with Crazy Mike, or with the many friends he traveled the country to play with.

Anthony was also an avid traveler and skateboard enthusiast.  He spent time traveling the country’s skate parks.   He showed off his talent across the country including Philadelphia, LA, Florida, and everywhere in between.  His love and talent were evident and his passion was raw.

Family was also important to Anthony.  In his younger years, he had the opportunity to spend a summer in Majorca, Spain with his cousins Nina and Victor and the rest of his extended family.  This trip was nothing short of amazing and those memories would last him a lifetime.  He also enjoyed riding motorcycles, specifically dirt bikes, with his father and brothers, in NJ and Florida. He especially enjoyed riding his dad’s Harley Davidson Motorcycles when in Florida. 

Anthony’s love for animals was evident.   He bonded with all living creatures that he crossed paths with.  He especially loved German Shepherds which he had several of throughout his life. Hobart, who represented a loyal companion and Junior, who was as wild and free as the wind, just to name a couple.  Anthony’s most recent companion, Shiva, who he rescued, also passed away in the accident.

Anyone who knew Anthony, knows he was kind, brilliant and artistic on multiple levels.  Family and friends will miss Anthony more than words can say.  The world got a little darker without this bright Star in it. 

Anthony will be missed by his loving and devoted father, Anthony (Tony) Rehm and Gina Rehm; mother, Neva Presson; sisters, Stephanie Ingemi (Nicholas Repp), Nicole Kinkade (Kit Garcia); loving brothers, Tyler Rehm, Ronald (RJ) Santini Jr ( Andrea Smirnov-Santini); nieces, Khloe Kinkade; Melanie and Nicolette; nephew, Axel Santini;  aunts and uncles, John and Rita Rehm, Nicholas and Denise Rehm; great aunts and uncles, Marlene and Jack Michaels, Fran and Joe Andoloro; as well as  many cousins.

Anthony was predeceased by his beloved grandmother, Arlene (Orlandini) Rehm and the late John Rehm; uncle William (Babe) Orlandini (Barbara); Al Orlandini (Marion); Walter Rehm (Diane); Rosemary Rehm (George Merklein) and his precious cousin, Dallas Rehm.

Contributions in memory of Anthony can be made to:  Boards for Bros (; The Skatepark Project (; or the animal foundation

A Celebration of Life will be announced at a later date


  1. Jennifer Zambo Dec 17, 2021 at 6:17 pm

    There are no words that can possibly be said to the family to comfort them in this time of immense loss. This beautiful child was taken too soon and the world has lost a beautiful light and is now dimmer than it was before.

  2. Nick Rehm Dec 17, 2021 at 7:51 pm

    Rest In Peace dear Ant. We are so proud of the young man you became. We will miss you. Love Uncle Nick and Aunt Denise

  3. Diane Rehm Dec 17, 2021 at 7:53 pm

    I cannot imagine the pain you must be feeling.. Tony, I am so very sad and sorry. All my love to you .
    Your loving cousin,

  4. Beverly Katz Dec 17, 2021 at 8:02 pm

    So sorry for your loss our prayers are with you and your family

  5. Jim Orlandini Dec 17, 2021 at 8:51 pm

    Tony I have no words and I cannot imagine something like this happened.. Colette , Celeste and I are sending prayers .

  6. Jamie Ann Dec 17, 2021 at 9:04 pm

    Anthony, it was such a pleasure meeting you, and watching you goof around with our son. John and I will always be thankful for you. Rest easy my dude. 💙

  7. Andrea albrecht-haines Dec 17, 2021 at 9:21 pm

    A life gone too soon. My heart is breaking for you. You’re all in my prayers and thoughts at this time.

  8. Rhonda Rehm Dec 17, 2021 at 9:45 pm

    A dear, sweet, beautiful soul. All my love to you all, Ronnie

  9. Auntie Dec 17, 2021 at 10:17 pm

    I cannot stop thinking of Anthony and how Arlene loved him. To read all the beautiful comments about him which none of us really knew we’re all so beautiful. He knew what he wanted to do and accomplish all of that. Tony, you should be so proud and will have all his memories. Love, Auntie 🥲

  10. James Perrine Dec 17, 2021 at 10:22 pm

    I got to work along side Anthony for a year or so during his stay with us here in Alabama throughout 2020
    We became good friends and he was great to be around
    Talked about his dad quite often, and the work they did together, loved music and skateboarding
    Our family will miss him..

    Rest easy homie!

  11. Kathy Gialanella Dec 18, 2021 at 1:03 am

    So sad Tony, Gina and little brother Tyler. I wish I could made the hurt go away. God needed that young angel. He will never be far away and forever young. ♥ rest in peace Anthony. 🙏

  12. Michael Forte Dec 18, 2021 at 4:45 am

    Will never forget all the memories of us skating and growing up together

  13. Christopher Ayala Dec 18, 2021 at 11:02 am

    I love you bro and miss you so much I can’t type anything else ..

  14. Mike delvecchio Dec 18, 2021 at 11:13 am

    Even when you were half a world away, it always felt like you were with me in spirit. Thank you for being a brother & friend.

  15. Stephanie Ingemi Dec 18, 2021 at 12:38 pm

    I am going to miss you so much! You were the best brother! We would play for hours on end when we were little. I will hold onto those special memories. I love you Ant!

  16. Johnathon perrine Dec 18, 2021 at 1:03 pm

    Thank you for so many memories brother. So many things will never be the same with you gone but I will never forget having you here.
    Sending love to your family

  17. Daniel Romer Dec 18, 2021 at 1:06 pm

    A saddest day indeed to not have you with us, yet so glad to know you. Even if only for such limited time

  18. David L Holmes Dec 18, 2021 at 5:38 pm

    Ronnie so sorry to hear on his passing. My condolences to you and your family

  19. Dennis and Donna Daly Dec 18, 2021 at 6:49 pm

    Tony, Gina, and family, so very sorry for you loss. Our hearts are broken for you all during this unimaginably difficult time. Anything at all we can do, we are just a phone call away. Sending you all love, hugs, and prayers 🙏🏻♥️

  20. Matthew Gatens Dec 18, 2021 at 8:33 pm

    Love you Ant, gonna cherish the memories we had growing up forever. Rest easy my friend

  21. Alison Sterling Dec 19, 2021 at 12:27 am

    Dear Gina and Family I am so very sorry for your tragic loss….May your beautiful son rest with the Angels….

  22. Chuck McCann Dec 19, 2021 at 10:23 am

    Tony and Gina, my heart aches for you

  23. Diane Tamagni Dec 19, 2021 at 9:06 pm

    Gina and Tony. So very very sorry .Such a beautiful soul gone too soon. God Bless you both.

  24. Anita DelVecchio Dec 20, 2021 at 11:05 am

    Our hearts are hurting. Such a beautiful person. We will miss you, Anthony,. We are thankful for the wonderful memories we have of you.
    Michael and Anita DelVecchio

  25. Rachel Ferrari Dec 20, 2021 at 10:07 pm

    I’m going to miss you so much Anthony! Gone too soon, but never forgotten! Rest In Peace.

  26. Terry Walker Kenned Dec 21, 2021 at 4:28 am

    I am so sorry for the loss of this young man. I am from Mississippi and the accident was on the news and paper. I read his obit and, Anthony seemed like a wonderful, free spirit that will be missed so much by many. Prayers of comfort for his family and loved ones. Also, reading about his love for animals and knowing his companion passed with him, lets me know, they are still together, and this is a very rare thing to hear about. God bless all~

  27. Doug & Bambi Ruberti Dec 22, 2021 at 11:51 am

    Dear Gina & Tony and Family we’re so very sorry for your tragic loss….God received another beautiful Angel 😇

  28. Nicola Wray Dec 23, 2021 at 5:00 pm

    We are so sorry for your loss. May you be blessed going forward with many happy memories. Big hug from Christine and Nicola xxx

  29. Denise Dec 31, 2021 at 10:36 pm

    Tony, I am so sorry for your loss and our family has been praying for you.

    Love you, always,
    Denise Orlandini Procopio, Johnny and Talia.

  30. Tyler n Jan 15, 2022 at 12:09 am

    Rehm thank you for introducing me to the Philly skate scene introducing me to all your friends having me crash at your place going to florida for my first time skateboarding with friends from us driving to contests together or to a indoor park 3 hours away when xpark closed man I can’t thank you enough for everything you’ve done for me I wish we had more time I wish we all had more time my heart goes out to your family and loved ones I miss you so much brotha I love you G

  31. Brandon Pennington Apr 1, 2022 at 10:28 am

    Thanks for all the great times we had g. I’ll see you in the next life. 🙏

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