Brian Thomas Jabotte, Sr.

June 6, 1972 - July 4, 2021

Brian Thomas Jabotte, Sr., 49, a resident of North Fort Myers, FL for the past 15 years, formerly of Boston, MA, passed away Sunday, July 4, 2021 in Cape Coral, FL.  He was born June 10, 1972 in West Hartford, CT.

Brian was of the Catholic faith. He was loved by so many, if you had the pleasure to know him you would know he would do anything for anyone he was always the one to count on. He had the biggest heart. Loved anyone who was around him. Would always make sure everyone was okay. He loved his mustangs and rebuilding them from scratch. He was also a guy who loved to live on the edge he was scared of heights but proceeded to go skydiving. He was the life of a party, he was loud, funny, sweet and so happy all the time. He loved his sports, he was the biggest Patriots and Red Sox fan, he loved fishing, being out on the water, going to family dinners, and he always loved to have all his family around him during the holidays. 

When he was 16 he was a body builder & loved to workout that was one of his favorite things to do, he also loved a good tattoo session. 

He was a family man, we always came first he was a loving husband, the best dad to have and even a better Pop-Pop. He always made it a point that when he woke up every morning he contacted everyone he loved, he always said “I love you” daily he made sure he did that. His favorite thing to say was, “Life is too short” and “Family is everything”.  That’s who he was, a loving man. 

He would tell you if you made stupid decisions he always wanted the best for everyone around him. 

The relationship his wife and him had was like no other, they did everything together two peas in a pod. He loved her so much and made sure she knew it. 

He was always there for his children whenever no matter the time or the day he was there. 

Car issues, needed someone to talk to, a friend, a helping hand, anything he would be there without hesitation.  He had a special bond with each of his children. And a special bond with his grandchildren they loved him so much.  He was all around an amazing man. To lose someone so sudden it’s so devastating especially to lose someone this amazing.

He is survived by his beloved wife of 23 years, Theresa Jabotte of North Fort Myers; four loving children, Jaime Jabotte (Leah Tashijian) of Hanover, MA, Kayla Duffey (Austin Frazier) of Fort Myers, Kylee Jabotte (Rob Hennessey) of Cape Coral, and Brian Jabotte, Jr. (Katherine Loughrey) of North Fort Myers; as well as four grandchildren, Chloe Duffey, Arabella Hennessey, Jayce Hennessey, and Paisley Frazier.

Memorial Services will be held 4:00 PM Friday, July 16, 2021 at Mullins Memorial, 3654 Palm Beach Blvd., Fort Myers, FL 33916.

Memorial Contributions in memory of Brian Thomas Jabotte, Sr., are suggested to St. Jude, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN  38105. 

Friends are invited to send condolences via the on-line guest book which can be found at

Mullins Memorial Funeral Home & Cremation Service, Cape Coral, is entrusted with final care.


  1. Michelle Jul 9, 2021 at 9:13 am

    To Bill Jabotte and his entire family, I’m very sorry to hear of the passing of your son Brian. I will always remember his smile. Sending love and prayers to you and your family.

  2. Kayla Duffey Jul 9, 2021 at 2:59 pm

    I love you dad.I wish you were here all I wanna do is hear your voice watch over mom and watch over us kids and watch over the grandkids we miss you

  3. Mary Amaru Jul 9, 2021 at 6:35 pm

    I am a long time friend of Sharon Jabotte, Brian’s mom. I met Brian when he was a baby and again when he and his brother Bill were teens. Now both boys are gone to be with the Lord. My thoughts and prayers are with their families.
    Mary Amaru

  4. Jaime Jul 9, 2021 at 10:46 pm

    I miss you dad i still can’t believe this is real… I love you always and forever please give mom a hug for me!!!

  5. Ashlee Damato Jul 13, 2021 at 10:53 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this devastating time.

    The Damato’s

  6. Mary Amaru Jul 15, 2021 at 12:32 pm

    I am so sorry to the whole family for your loss. And I sincerely apologize when I referred to Brian’s brother Michael. ( I said his name was Bill.)
    I pray that you will take comfort in all your good memories of Brian.

  7. Jamie G Jul 15, 2021 at 1:31 pm

    Brian you were a great person and a fun Person to be around yes you sure were loud but kept the party going back in the day you will be missed 💔RIP my friend 💔

  8. Janice Aug 25, 2021 at 2:50 pm

    Brian you will always be thought of with Love ❤️ your spirit will live on in each and everyone that ever met you. Love and prayers to the entire Jabotte family ❤️

  9. Theresa Aug 26, 2021 at 9:21 pm

    To my husband I will always love you. You were my somebody there is no other. I love you ❤️

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