Hillary Kay DiTommaso

July 21, 1971 - April 3, 2015

Hillary Kay DiTommaso, 43, a Lee County, Florida resident for the last 15 years, formerly of Lake Wales, Florida, passed away Friday, April 3, 2015 in Cape Coral, Florida. She was born July 21, 1971 in Kansas City, Missouri.

Hillary was a member of the Ft. Myers First Church of the Nazarene. She expressed her faith in Jesus by extending love, kindness, and friendship to many, and through her dedicated involvement in the ministries of her church, where she taught Bible studies and Sunday School classes after having served as a missionary in Malawi and Mozambique as a young adult. Her faith was real, believable, and contagious. Hillary’s life was characterized by a radiant smile and an easy laughter that she shared gladly with everyone she met. The delight of her heart was in being a wife and mother, and she cherished her relationship with her extended family, as well. She opened the door to family status to as many as would agree to love her back! An eager student, Hillary excelled academically, earning a bachelor’s degree in education from MidAmerica Nazarene College in 1992. She was a public school teacher for many years. Desiring a career change, she was pursuing a master’s degree in counseling from Liberty University at the time of her death. In the latter years of her life, Hillary developed a sense of adventure that helped her conquer some lifelong fears, and so she came to enjoy riding motorcycles and sailing. She loved music, and sang along to the music of her faith and to the music of the Wiggles! She developed friendships with people all around the world through her musical interest. Loved by all, Hillary lived an enormous life in a period of time that was far too short.

She is survived by her beloved husband of four years, Guy A. DiTommaso of Cape Coral; her loving mother, Freda K. Miller of Mt. Moriah, MO; six children, Megan Balsbaugh of Alva, FL, Allison Balsbaugh also of Alva, Sarah DiTommaso of Cape Coral, FL, Kristy DiTommaso of Neptune, NJ, Jessica Milligan and husband Todd of Richmond, VA and Guy H. DiTommaso of Long Branch, NJ; seven siblings, Kimberly Crawford of MO, Angela Jones and husband Mitch of KS, Lora Davis and husband Sam of MO, Cliff Purcell and wife Laura of ID, Michael Forrest of MO, Dale Forrest and wife Teresa also of MO and Christopher Forrest and wife Stacy of MO; as well as numerous nieces and nephews.

Hillary was preceded in death by her father, Carl Purcell in 1997 and her step-father, Cecil Miller in 2006.

Memorial contributions in memory of Hillary Kay DiTommaso are suggested to a Christian charity of one’s choice.

Mullins Memorial Funeral Home & Cremation Service, Cape Coral, is entrusted with final care.

Memorial services in Florida will be held at 11:00AM Monday, April 6, 2015 at the First Church of the Nazarene, 13545 American Colony Blvd., Ft. Myers, FL 33912 with Pastor Joey Brummett officiating.

Memorial services in Missouri will be held 11:00AM Thursday, April 9, 2015 at the Harrisonville Church of the Nazarene, 2305 E South St, Harrisonville, MO 64701 with Pastor Cliff Purcell officiating.


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