Ronald Frank Vargo

July 11, 1969 - December 8, 2020

Ronald Frank Vargo, 51, a resident of Cape Coral, FL for the past five years, formerly of Spotswood, NJ, passed away Tuesday, December 8, 2020 in Florida. He was born July 11, 1969 in Sayreville, NJ to Ronald and Joan Vargo, now deceased.

Ronald was of the Episcopal faith. He worked construction/electrician prior to moving to Florida. He loved life and lived to the fullest. He especially loved the beach, fishing and enjoying time with his family and friends. He will be missed and forever remembered and loved.

He is survived by his beloved wife of fifteen years, Miriam Sardinas-Vargo of Cape Coral; three loving children, Robert and April Vargo of Sayreville, NJ, Justa and Derek Ferrara of Hamilton, NJ, Richard and Diane De Candia of Helmetta, NJ; a beloved sister, Renee and Michael Vona of Sayreville, NJ; nieces, Olivia and Ava; as well as a grandchild, Devin.

No formal services are planned at this time.

Memorial Contributions in memory of Ronald Frank Vargo are suggested to St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105 or

Mullins Memorial Funeral Home & Cremation Service, Cape Coral, is entrusted with final care.


  1. Orquidea Dec 14, 2020 at 3:34 pm

    My heart goes out to the family and my cousin Miriam. Praying for you God Bless 🙏🏼

  2. Frank Bogus Dec 14, 2020 at 6:13 pm

    So Sorry.

  3. Robert Vargo Dec 14, 2020 at 6:24 pm

    Dear Dad,
    I have thousands of things running through my mind. How I feel is hard to put in words. Memories of fishing and going to the range, driving with you in the tow truck. You set many examples for me some bad some good and even in the bad examples was still things to learn and grow. Miles away and you still pestered me almost everyday to check on me. Though I may have seemed annoyed sometimes, in hindsight never thought it would be the last communication we would have. Id be selfish to wish you here but i know youre with Mammom and Pepop now and as happy as ever. Crazy to sit here and know i could write an entire book about you and the life you had. Maybe have that one cigar with you. That one fishing trip on our little row boat. That last bullet down range. That last time i was actually able to hug you. This is part of life we come and go, sink and swim. Catch that fish for me up there, smoke that cigar and tell mammom and pepop i miss them.

  4. Robert Vargo Dec 14, 2020 at 6:25 pm


  5. Cindy Parracho Dec 14, 2020 at 6:46 pm

    Miriam-my heart aches for you. Praying for God to bring you comfort and peace while you go through this. May your heart heal over time with all the memories you shared with Ron.

  6. Agustin Sardinas Dec 14, 2020 at 6:50 pm

    Miriam, I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember Ron as being a die hard redskins fan-his collection of jerseys hanging in the lanai. I always teased him that the giants would always beat them and we always went back and forth. He will be missed. Love you my sister.

  7. Lazara Richardson Dec 14, 2020 at 7:54 pm

    My condolences to Miriam and family. My prayers and thoughts are with you all. RIP.
    God Bless. Laz

  8. DeeDee Dec 14, 2020 at 10:27 pm

    Ronnie, Thank you for giving me an amazing grandson,rest in peace 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  9. Karen Slocum Dec 15, 2020 at 8:12 am

    I’m truly sorry for you Mirium, I know how happy Ron made you. He’s another one of your Special Angels now…always watching over you, protecting you and your whole family💗 I love you so much and I’m Always here, day or night for you. God Bless You Mirium 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  10. Mercy Sardinas Dec 15, 2020 at 12:20 pm

    Miriam, I am so sorry that you are going through this. I am here for you. I am praying and will keep praying for God to get you through this. I love you so much.

  11. Maureen Downie Dec 15, 2020 at 4:55 pm

    Dear Ron Vargo Family…(Renee)
    I am so saddened by the news of Ronnie’s passing. My deepest condolences go out to your family .I have many fond memories of Ron . May he Rest In Peace
    You always held a special place in my ❤️

  12. Miriam Dec 16, 2020 at 1:10 pm

    My dear husband and love.
    Where do I start. So many things left undone so many more memories yet to be created. I find myself feeling and thinking selfishly. for thinking that you should still be here with me I am sorry for that. I only hope that you found and are reunited with your mother and father. Until we meet again. Wait for me. Love you. Miriam your now my angel

  13. Msv Dec 16, 2020 at 2:14 pm

    Some of my favorite pics.

  14. Karline Wasser Dec 17, 2020 at 10:15 am

    I am so very sorry for your loss. My condolences go out to you and family. My memories of Ronnie are mostly of him very young with Renee. Spent a lot of time with them at Joanie’s house, good memories. Sending hugs and praying for your peace and comfort during this difficult time.

  15. Sherri Benson Dec 17, 2020 at 2:36 pm

    When I first heard about Ron, I couldnt believe it. I am so sorry for your loss. I mainly remember. him when we were younger. The sleepovers. The barbecues, the exploring at the end of the street and finding snakes which Ron had no fear of. All the fun me.mories. He will be missed.

  16. Brooke Sidlowski Dec 18, 2020 at 10:31 am

    Robert, I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is something i have yet to experience, i lost a ton of friends but not a parent and i can’t imagine how you feel. You were his only son and he adored you. Ron had been in my life since i was 10! We had our jokes, always laughing about the times he worked with my stepdad Mike on the job site and it always turned into some calamity. Or I remember the time he bought his 1st bow and arrow and shot that squirrel…he felt so bad he put it away. Ron had his good and bad days but his heart was always in the right place. He cared for his son and annoying him everyday was his way of saying “i love you kiddo” May he be at peace with his parents in paradise. Rest easy Ronnie.
    Luv ya Brookie Cookie
    (Robert’s Mother’s Sister) p.s. look how goofy i look in this picture with you lol

  17. April Dec 21, 2020 at 8:50 am

    You really were one of a kind these past couple weeks I’ve been thinking of a my fondest memories of you always making me laugh. When you would call me and say Robert isn’t answering the phone he’s probably working so I’m going to annoy you. What i would give for you to annoy us a little bit longer. I just want to thank you for giving me the best husband I could ever dream of. I know how much he means to you I’ll take care of him I promise. Be good up there. I’m going to miss you Dad.
    Love always,
    Your daughter in law April

  18. April Dec 21, 2020 at 10:14 am

    My father in law and I <3

  19. Marianne Targonski Dec 21, 2020 at 9:36 pm

    Love you Renee to the moon and back and also loved Ronny he was adorable and your brother. I’m always here my dear friend. Xo my heart goes out to all of you. A beautiful family! Forever Marianne T.

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